Thursday, 20 September 2007
Har khushi Hai Logon Ke Daman Mein!
Par Ek Hansi Ke Liye Waqt Nahi.
Din Raat Daudti Duniya Mein,
Zindagi Ke Liye Hi Waqt Nahi.
Maa Ki Loree Ka Ehsaas To Hai,
Par Maa Ko Maa Kehne Ka Waqt Nahi.
Saare Rishton Ko To Hum Maar Chuke,
Ab Unhe Dafnane Ka Bhi Waqt Nahi.
Saare Naam Mobile Mein Hain,
Par Dosti Ke Liye Waqt Nahi.
Gairon Ki Kya Baat Karen,
Jab Apno Ke Liye Hi Waqt Nahi.
Aankhon Me Hai Neend Badee,
Par Sone Ka Waqt Nahi.
Dil Hai Ghamon Se Bhara Hua,
Par Rone Ka Bhi Waqt Nahi.
Paison ki Daud Me Aise Daude,
Ki Thakne ka Bhi Waqt Nahi.
Paraye Ehsason Ki Kya Kadr Karein,
Jab Apane Sapno Ke Liye Hi Waqt Nahi.
Tu Hi Bata E-Zindagi,Iss Zindagi Ka Kya Hoga,
Ki Har Pal Marne Walon Ko,Jeene Ke Liye Bhi Waqt Nahi........
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Monday, 17 September 2007
NO EXPECTATIONS...
Parents expect their son will support them during their oldage, so they give him best education and fulfill all his needs. But in reality will it happen as they expected, No, in my observations I have seen many parents crying for their destiny for such a son who has no respect towards them. In present society very few children lookafter their parents with respect during their old age as a responsibility. Merely looking after is not sufficient, but it should be with respect. By admitting them in old age home and paying the maintanance fee is not the responsiblity completed.
Even a true doodhwala will not sell a cow to a butcher when it becomes old, he looks after it well till its death, a true dog lover will not abandon the dog when it becomes old.
If you don't expect anything in return then you are the happiest person with peace of mind(e.g.Sanyasi), but it is quiet natural in the human nature to have expectations. In many fields if you don't have expectations then you are going to die. If you don't expect wages for your work then how you are going to survive.
EXPECTATION is part of a life, but the result of the expectation many times will be bitter than sweet as expected.
Always one should not have expectation from his children during their old age, as a parent it is one's responsibility to look after them, during old age do not depend on them, atleast financially, then they respect you more.
Do not expect anything from anyone for the good deed you have done to your family or to the society. It is your Dharma and Karma.
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HEADLINES DATED 1ST JAN 2023..
2. Dhoom 17 ready for release.
3. I will play next world cup - Sachin Tendulkar
4. Salman, Vivek and Abhishek attend Aishwarya's 3rd marriage .
5. Abhi toh Mein jawan hoon - Dev Anand.
6. Petrol Rs.999.95 / liter (Bata price).
7. Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi completed 2,50,000 episodes & Baa has completed 400yrs.
8. Coach Ganguly resigns, as India is knocked out of World Cup in 1st round after losing to Korea
9. Siddhu launches his own TV channal where he can speak and laugh for the whole day.
10. After giving 49 flop movie in a row Himesh reshamiya is coming in Hollywood romantic movie sequel Titanic 3
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Year 2019 - Cricket World Cup news:
Coach Sehwag said that he is not worried because he has backing of selectors, captain and board....and that they had won a close match against Papua new guinea just 2 yrs ago
Rahul Dravid,the coach of NewZealand team said that Sachin should now consider retiring gracefully and let his son take over the captaincy
Mahender Singh Dhoni broke Ajit Agarkars record of most no of consecutive ducks in twenty 20
Saurav Ganguly, the coach of England feels that the boys need to control their emotions on the field
The current leading man from Bollywood Bret Lee advices M S Dhoni to take up acting as well
Minnows Pakistan beat Ireland in a close match...and thus they avenged their defeat in the 2007 WC against the then minnows Ireland
Inzamam ul haq, who was the captain of the losing team and now the present coach said in a press interview that
"Boys plays well...they try hard...Inshallah we wins the world cup"
The police arrested 8 people for violence after England and NZ match...
Investigations revealed that these people were members of Dravid and Ganguly fan communities on Orkut which have 623241516 and 126542 members respectively.
The Indian cricket board led by president Rahul Gandhi has called for an emergency meeting to discuss future course of action ..former players like Yuvraj Singh, Md Kaif,vvs Laxman and Kumble have been invited...coach Sehwag and Captain Tendulkar will present a report...
VVS Laxman today created a new controversy by saying that he expected a written apology from Rahul Gandhi for including him in the category of former players....he said that he has improved his fielding and fitness and wants to play 2023 WC in Brazil
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Love Life v/s Advertisement!!
Just do it - Nike
Before going to propose to a girl
Believe in the best - BPL.
If you are hesitating before proposing to a girl
Vicks ki goli lo kich kich door karo - Vicks.
If you are going to propose to a girl
Chances are 50-50 - Britannia.
If a girl slapped you when you proposed to her
Take it easy - Limca.
Girl says NO !
Jor ka jhatka dhire se lage - Mirinda.
Those who succeed in love always say
We dream because we do - Daewoo.
If some one wants to write a love letter to his girlfriend
Likho script apna apna.- Rotomac.
If you love someone
Go get it - Visa power.
Boy riding a bike with neighbor's girl
Neighbors envy owner's pride - Onida.
Not satisfied with your date
Yeh dil mangey more - Pepsi.
A guy having a number of girl friends
The Complete Man - Raymonds.
A smart girl having a number of boyfriends
Yeh hai hamara suraksha chakra - Colgate.
For those lost in love
Har shaam ka sathi main aur mera - Bagpiper Whisky.
For a guy 'r gal who hasn't yet found one (like me)
Dhoondte rehe jayo ge - Surf Excel
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Apni wife Aisi Ho...
Jeans jiski tight ho,
Chehra jiska bright ho,
Weight mein thodi light ho,
Umar mein difference slight ho,
Thodisi woh quiet ho,
Aisi Apni Wife ho...
Sadak pe sab kahe, kya sight ho,
Bhid mein chale to sab kahe, side ho, side ho,
India ki paidaish ho,
Saans ki seva jiski khwaish ho,
Aisi apni Wife ho...
Padosi jab baat kare to haath mein knife ho,
Dinner candle light ho,
Dono mein na kabhi fight ho,
Milne ke baad Dil delight ho,
Yeh Kavita padh ke sab kahe
"Guru tum right ho,"
Aisi apni wife ho...
Kaash yeh concept 0.0001 percent bhi right ho,
Agar aisi apni wife ho,
Toh kya haseen life ho,
Har kisi ki yehi farmaish ho,
Kudrat ki bhi Aazmaish ho,
Khuda ke software mein bhi,
Bug ki na gunjaish ho,
Aye kaash kahin toh ek aisi paidaish ho,
Aisi apni wife ho...
FOR THE GIRLS:
ARE YOU THE ONE I M LOOKING FOR?
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Why guys like girls...
1. They will always smell good even if it’s just shampoo
2. The way their heads always find the right spot on our shoulder
3. How cute they look when they sleep
4. The ease in which they fit into our arms
5. The way they kiss you and all of a sudden everything is right in the world
6. How cute they are when they eat
7. The way they take hours to get dressed but in the end makes it all worth while
8. Because they are always warm even when its minus 30 out side
9. The way they look good no matter what they wear
10. The way they fish for compliments even though you both know that you think she's the most beautiful thing on this earth
11. How cute they are when they argue
12. The way her hand always finds yours
13. The way they smile
14. The way you feel when you see their name on the call ID after you just had a big fight
15. The way she says "lets not fight anymore" even though you know that an hour later you will be arguing about something
16. The way they kiss when you do something nice for them
17. The way they kiss you when you say "I love you'
18. Actually ... ! ! ju! ! st the way they kiss you...
19. The way they fall into your arms when they cry
20. Then the way they apologize for crying over something that silly
21. The way they hit you and expect it to hurt
22. Then the way they apologize when it does hurt. (Even though we don't admit it)!
23. The way they say "I miss you"
24. The way you miss them
25. The way their tears make you want to change the world so that it doesn't hurt her anymore..... Yet regardless if you love them, hate them, wish they would die or know that you would die without them ... it matters not. Because once in your life, whatever they were to the world they become everything to you. When you look them in the eyes, traveling to the depths of their souls and you say a million things without trace of a sound, you know that your own life is inevitable consumed within the rhythmic beatings of her very heart. We love them for a million reasons, No paper would do it justice. It is a thing not of the mind but of the heart.
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Thursday, 13 September 2007
7 - RULES TO BE HAPPY...
2.....Dont Worry
3....Live Simple
4....Expect A Little
5....Give A Lot
6....Always Smile
7....Have Person U Like Most Who, Always Remember U
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Monday, 10 September 2007
22 Best of Best...
2. Laughing till your stomach hurts.
3. Enjoying a ride down the Country side.
4. Listening to your favorite song on the radio.
5. Going to sleep listening to the rain pouring outside.
6. Getting out of the shower and wrapping yourself with a warm, fuzzy
towel.
7. Passing your final exams with good grades.
8. Being part of an interesting conversation.
9. Finding some money in some old pants.
10. Laughing at yourself.
11. Sharing a wonderful dinner with all your friends.
12. Laughing without a reason.
13. "Accidentally" hearing someone say something good about you.
14. Watching the sunset.
15. Listening to a song that reminds you of an important person in
your
life.
16. Receiving or giving your first kiss.
17. Feeling this movement in your body when seeing this "special"
someone.
18. Having a great time with your friends.
19. Seeing the one you love happy.
20. Wearing the shirt of a person you love and smelling his/her
perfume.
21. Visiting an old friend of yours and remembering great memories.
22. Hearing some telling you "I LOVE YOU"
True friends come in the good times when we tell them to, and come in
the bad times.....without calling."
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8 Gift...
But you must REALLY listen. No interrupting, no daydreaming, no planning your response. Just listening.
2) THE GIFT OF AFFECTION...
Be generous with appropriate hugs, kisses, pats on the back and handholds. Let these small actions demonstrate the love you have for family and friends.
3) THE GIFT OF LAUGHTER...
Clip cartoons. Share articles and funny stories. Your gift will say, "I love to laugh with you."
4) THE GIFT OF A WRITTEN NOTE...
It can be a simple "Thanks for the help" note or a full sonnet. A brief, handwritten note may be remembered for a lifetime, and may even change a life.
5) THE GIFT OF A COMPLIMENT...
A simple and sincere, "You look great in red," "You did a super job" or "That was a wonderful meal" can make someone's day.
6) THE GIFT OF A FAVOR...
Every day, go out of your way to do something kind.
7) THE GIFT OF SOLITUDE...
There are times when we want nothing better than to be left alone. Be sensitive to those times and give the gift of solitude to others.
8) THE GIFT OF A CHEERFUL DISPOSITION...
The easiest way to feel good is to extend a kind word to someone, really it's not that hard to say, "Hello" or "Thank you."
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Before you...
Think of someone who can't speak
Before you complain about the taste of your food
Think of someone who has nothing to eat
Before you complain about your husband or wife
Think of someone who's crying out to God for a companion
Today before you complain about life
Think of someone who went too early to heaven
Before you complain about your children
Think of someone who desires children but they're barren
Before you argue about your dirty house; someone didn't clean or sweep
Think of the people who are living in the streets
Before whining about the distance you drive
Think of someone who walks the same distance with their feet
And when you are tired and complain about your job
Think of the unemployed, the disabled and those who wished they had your job
But before you think of pointing the finger or condemning another
Remember that not one of us are without sin and we all answer to one maker
And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down
Put a smile on your face and thank God you're alive and still around
Life is a gift
Live it...
Enjoy it...
Celebrate it...
And fulfill it.
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Thats Life...
Jim isn’t any different from you and me. He’s just like all of us and questions like “why do we live?” or “why are we born?” don’t haunt him. He considers them weird and unanswerable just like you and me. They are for him unimportant. Though he doesn’t think about them do you know what he’s doing as he’s lying there? He’s thinking about how much freedom is that stroke of midnight going to give him. He’s thinking about his future and the new experiences it will get him.
We all come in this world without much of a choice. We can’t choose our parents, we can’t choose our appearances and neither do we have a choice of our innate qualities or tendencies whether good or bad. But there’s one more fact. We don’t have a choice to die either. Most of us are too afraid of committing suicide. In other words we just don’t have the guts. So here we are. Left with decades and sometimes a century of time with not much of choice and so we are forced. Forced to live.
In these decades of forced vacation called life, we start finding ways to spend it. Some people use their qualities and tendencies. Some develop them from others. We label these ways in several forms. Some call it love, some profession, some passion and some…don’t know what!. In short we all have to find something to do because ultimately we have no choice.
Long journeys have to have halts and breaks. So we go away from our passions and have experiences. People don’t get addicted to alcohol or drugs. They are not addicted to sex. They get addicted to experiences of them. There are so many experiences here. Everyone is addicted to a different experience. This addiction to experiences is what we call life. And its so strong to get rid off that by the time we can only form a list of these experiences, our time here is over! And that’s life!
Whether having these experiences is good or bad, or what leads to heaven or hell isn’t for us to decide. If god exists, he will take care of it. Make justice. Find the best way to spend your vacation here. That’s all. Don’t ever cry about yesterday. Be happy because you have today. You may not have a tomorrow to think about it. Some people die in a day, some in weeks. Some old, some young and no one knows when the time is over.
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Quick Tips to Improve Self Confidence...
1) Identify your successes. Everyone is good at something, so discover the things at which you excel, then focus on your talents. Give yourself permission to take pride in them. Give yourself credit for your successes. Inferiority is a state of mind in which you've declared yourself a victim. Do not allow yourself to be victimized.
2) Look in the mirror and smile. Studies surrounding what's called the "facial feedback theory" suggest that the expressions on your face can actually encourage your brain to register certain emotions. So by looking in the mirror and smiling every day, you might feel happier with yourself and more confident in the long run.
3) Exercise and eat healthy. Exercise raises adrenaline and makes one feel happier and healthier. It is certainly an easy and effective way to boost your self-confidence.
4) Turn feelings of envy or jealousy into a desire to achieve. Stop wanting what others have just because they have it; seek things simply because you want them, whether anybody else has them or not.
5) When you're feeling superbly insecure, write down a list of things that are good about you. Then read the list back. You'd be surprised at what you can come up with.
6) Don't be afraid to push yourself a bit - a little bit of pressure can actually show just how good you are!
7) You can try taking a martial arts or fitness class/course (or both). This will help build confidence and strength.
8) Invest in some new clothing and donate some of your old clothing to send a message to yourself that you both look sharp and feel sharp.
9) Try to make yourself talk positively at all times. When you hear yourself saying you can't do something, stop and say you can. Unless you try, you will never know whether you are able to or not.
10) Don't get wrapped up in your mistakes and dwell on bad points; they can contrast your good points or even give you something to improve. There's no feeling like being good at something you were really bad at.
11) Don't confuse what you have with who you are. People degrade their self worth when comparing possessions.
12) Surround yourself with nurturing friends, not overly critical individuals who make you feel inadequate or insecure. This could do great harm and damage to your self confidence.
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12 Ways to Stay on Top of Stress...
All this craziness and high-speed living isn't going away. Since we can't change our genes, we have to create a map to navigate this crazy life. What can you do to try and stay on top of the stress so it doesn't affect your health, happiness, or waistline?
1. Exercise. Amen for endorphins. Believe me, they've helped me many days with my perspective. If you have to work out, then go take a brisk walk and get that blood flowing. It isn't about working out to lose weight -- it's about being healthy and staying sane.
2. Eat the real stuff. Crappy food (fast, processed, and loaded with sugar) doesn't help your chemical brain and body handle stress. Living food, real food, helps support your mind and body while it's trying to deal with the million things coming its way. Every time I reach for the chocolate, I'm looking to feel something from it. Don't get me wrong -- if it's just a little here and there because I enjoy the taste of it, great. But if I'm using it the minute I feel overwhelmed, then that's when that food is no longer OK to eat. It doesn't make the problem go away, and then I just feel bad about eating the food to pacify myself. Grab green food instead. Put things in your mouth that are going to support your immune function and keep you levelheaded.
3. Notice. Try not to let the stress overtake you. Recognize the situations that cause the stress and notice them coming your way. You have a better shot at fending off the full effects of the stress when you can anticipate it.
4. Get it off your chest. Talk to a friend or partner about the stress. Sometimes just getting it off your chest can help unload some of the burden.
5. Keep your sense of humor. If you do have the chance to talk about it, try to see the irony and humor in the wacky bits. I think someone is dead in the water once they lose their sense of humor.
6. Stay grateful. My daughter has large lungs and verbal skills she likes to display. Just when I start to wishfully think about her being quiet, I remind myself to be grateful that she can talk to me at all. In almost all of our problems are boatloads of blessings. "Oh, I don't feel like going to the gym." Well, Amen that you have the means and the health to even be able to wrestle with the idea of going to work out. Make a habit of saying thank you. You will notice the sunny spots a lot more often, and not just the gray skies and storms.
7. Ask, "What's the hurry?" Have some fun. We're always so busy going somewhere, we miss just enjoying the moment. If an opportunity comes your way to do something fun, take it.
8. Take a deep breath. When you feel the stress getting to you, take a moment. Get away, even if it's just for an hour, to be with yourself and your thoughts. Some people like to take a walk, meditate, lock themselves away in a beautiful bath, or go to church. Find the peace and the silence.
9. Keep it simple. Simplify where you can. Does Junior really need to be in 78 activities at the age of 5? Do you have to go to every little party or gathering you're invited to?
10. Turn of the TV. A lot of it is bad news anyway, and it robs us of hours that we could use to be getting other things done. Since everyone complains that they have no time, get some by unplugging from the tube.
11. Sleep. If you're rested, you have a better shot at handling things. Not to mention, you may not stress out as easily if you have a chance to recover at night.
12. Drink water. I have said it before: Americans consume 21 percent of their calories through liquid consumption. Hydrate with water. Help you entire system function better just by drinking enough water. Oh, and by the way, if you don't think that weight loss and proper hydration have a relationship, think again. Shift the paradigm on its side -- don't think about exercise and nutritional eating just as something you have to suffer through to get into those jeans. Instead, think of them as armor that will protect you in this crazy world, with all of the bazillion details you deal with every day.
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Improve your Communication Skills...
1. Awareness of your own interaction with other people is the first step in improving your communication skills.
Learn to identify which types of situations make you uncomfortable and then modify your behavior to achieve positive results is a critical step in improving your communication skills.
You can learn to become aware of behaviors in other people that prompt you to respond in negative ways and modify your own behavior to turn the situation into a positive experience.
2. You must accept responsibility for your own behavior and do not fear apologizing for errors in judgment or insensitive actions.
Asking others for honest feedback about the way you interact with others can be very helpful. Accept the negative feedback along with the positive and make changes accordingly.
3. Your non-verbal communication is equally as important as the things that you say. Positive body language is extremely important in your interactions with other people.If your words and your actions do not match, you will have a difficult time succeeding in social situations.
4. In order to learn how to improve your communication skills, you must become a great listener. You must fight the urge to respond immediately and really listen to what the other person is trying to communicate.Offering suggestions or criticism before you are certain of the other person's intent can only lead to frustration for both parties.
5. Improving your communication skills is a process and cannot be accomplished overnight. Trying to improve or change too many things at once will be counter-productive. You will become discouraged and overwhelmed if you attempt to change your entire personality all at once. Choose one or two traits at a time and work on those over a period of time. Learn to take advantage of your personal strengths and make a positive impact on others.
6. Maximize your positive personality traits and use them in your interactions with others. Good communication and great listening skills are the most important tools you can use in improving your communication skills.
You can learn how to improve your communication skills by developing excellent listening skills, learning to resolve problems and conflicts, understanding body language, and accepting responsibility for your own negative behavior.
Determination and self-awareness will make your desire to improve your communication skills a reality.
You can change your life and now is the time to start.
Exceptional communication skills can be Learned...and Mastered!!!
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Public Speaking Tips...
Be solemn if your topic is serious. Present the desired image to your audience. Appear relaxed, even if you feel nervous. Establish rapport with your audience. If a microphone is available, adjust and adapt your voice accordingly.
Master the use of presentation software such as PowerPoint well before your presentation. Persuade your audience effectively. Speak loudly and clearly. Sound confident. Maintain sincere eye contact with your audience. If what you have prepared is obviously not getting across to your audience, change your strategy mid-stream if you are well prepared to do so. Allow yourself and your audience a little time to reflect and think. Keep audience interested throughout your entire presentation. Remember that an interesting speech makes time fly, but a boring speech is always too long to endure even if the presentation time is the same.
Check out the location ahead of time to ensure seating arrangements for audience, whiteboard, blackboard, lighting, location of projection screen, sound system, etc. are suitable for your presentation.
Tell audience ahead of time that you will be giving out an outline of your presentation so that they will not waste time taking unnecessary notes during your presentation.
Here are just a few hints, public speaking tips and techniques to help you develop your skills and become far more effective as a public speaker.
Mistakes
Mistakes are all right.
Recovering from mistakes makes you appear more human.
Good recovery puts your audience at ease - they identify with you more.
How to use the public speaking environment
Try not to get stuck in one place.
Use all the space that's available to you.
Move around.
One way to do this is to leave your notes in one place and move to another.
If your space is confined (say a meeting room or even presenting at a table) use stronger body language to convey your message.
Tell stories
Stories make you a real person not just a deliverer of information.
Use personal experiences to bring your material to life.
No matter how dry your material is, you can always find a way to humanise it.
Technology
Speak to your audience not your slides.
Your slides are there to support you not the other way around.
Ideally, slides should be graphics and not words (people read faster than they hear and will be impatient for you to get to the next point).
If all the technology on offer fails, it's still you they've come to hear.
Humour
Tell jokes if you're good at telling jokes.
If you aren't good, best to leave the jokes behind.
There's nothing worse than a punch line that has no punch.
Gentle humour is good in place of jokes.
Self-deprecation is good, but try not to lay it on too thick.
You can learn to enjoy public speaking and become far more effective at standing in front of a group of people and delivering a potent message.
And remember to keep practicing!
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Wednesday, 5 September 2007
How True Is Your Love!
-It isn't love, it's LIKE.
You can't keep your eyes or hands off of her, am I right??
-It isn't love, it’s LUST.
Are you proud, and eager to show her off??
-It isn't love, it’s LUCK.
Do you want her because you know she's there??
-It isn't love, it’s LONELINESS. Are you with her because it’s what everyone wants??
-It isn't love, it’s LOYALTY.Are you with her because she kissed you, or held your hand?
-It isn't love, its LOW CONFIDENCE.
Do you stay for her confessions of love, because you don't want to hurt her?
-It isn't love, it’s PITY.
Do you belong to her because the sight of her makes your heart skip a beat??
-It isn't love, it’s INFATUATION.
Do you pardon her faults because you care about her?
-It isn't love, it’s FRIENDSHIP.Do you tell her every day she is the only one you think of?
-It isn't love, it’s a LIE.Are you willing to give up all of your favorite things for her sake?
-It isn't love, it’s CHARITY.
Does your heart ache and breaks when she's sad?
-Then it's LOVE.
Do you cry for her pain, even when she's strong?
-Then it's LOVE.
Do her eyes see your true heart, and touch your soul so deeply it hurts?
-Then it's LOVE. Do you stay because a blinding, incomprehensible mix of pain and relation pulls you close and holds you to her?
-Then it's LOVE.Do you accept her faults because it's a part of who she is?
-Then it's LOVE.
Are you attracted to others, but stay with her faithfully without regret??
-Then it's LOVE.
Would you give her your heart, your life, your death??
-Then it's LOVE.
Now, if love is painful, and tortures us so, why do we love?
Why is it all we search for in life? This pain, this agony?Why is it all we long for? This torture, this powerful death of self?
Why?
The answer is so simple because it's...LOVE.
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Former president Of India...
By the way, can you hazard a guess as to who the boss was..?
He was none other than Dr. A.P.J. Abdul Kalam, Former President of India . . .
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Jab tum nahi hote!
Tadapta hai yeh dil aatthon pahar jab tum nahi hote…
Kali, gul, mahek, kirney,chand sitarey,chandani shabnam
Sabhi to nazar pher lete hai jab tum nahi hote…..
Mere ehsaas ki nas- nas mein jum jata hai paara sa
Nahi rahti hai mujhe kuchch bhi khabar jab tum nahi hote…
Phool,kitaab, kagaz , kalam khat padhe rahte hai
Yun hi mez par jab tum nahi hote ho………….
Viyog ratri ke andherey me meri aankhe luta
deti hain ashkon ke moti jab tum nahi hote…
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TANHAAI KA MANJAR!
Mujhe kisi ka intezaar hai……………..
Ek chehra uthta hai nazar ke paimano par
Aur ek nasha de jaata hai…………………..
Lakh dilasa de loon is dil ko par ek khayaal
Dil ko chhu jata hai mujhe kisi ka intezaar hai
Jab jab gam ne mujhe gherna chaaha man ne
Dil ko dilaasa dilaaya……………………………..
Jhel ja yeh manjar bhi kyonki
Mujhe kisi ka intezaar hai…………………….
Raat ka ek khwaab dil mein tasveer chhod jata hai
Dil karta hai gahraiyon mein chhipa loon usko…
Par waqt use bhi chheen le jata hai ab to yehi aas hai ki
Shaayad kisi ko mera bhi intezaar hai……..
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KHUBSOORAT!
Khubsoorat hai woh muskurahat jo doosaron ke chehron per bhi muskaan saja de,
Khubsoorat hai woh dil jo kisi ke dard ko samjhey
jo kisi ke dard mein tadpey,
Khubsoorat hain woh jazbaat jo kisi ka ehsaas karein,
Khubsoorat hai woh ehsaas jo kisi ke dard ki dawa baney,
Khubsoorat hain woh baatein jo kisi ka dil na dukhaein,
Khubsoorat hain woh ankhein jin mein paakeezgi ho sharm o haya ho,
Khubsoorat hain woh aansoo jo kisi ke dard ko mehsoos kerke beh jaein,
Khubsoorat hain woh Haath jo kisi ko mushkil waqt mein thaam lein,
Khubsoorat hain woh qadam jo kisi ki madad ke liye aagey bedhein !!!!!
Khubsoorat hai woh soch jo kisi ke liye achcha sochey,
Khubsoorat hai woh insaan jis ko KHUDA ne yeh Khubsoorati ada ki......!!
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A marriage of two...
A marriage of two is always something new
A marriage of two happens sometimes out of the blue
A marriage of two is worth it when it’s due
A marriage of two is a marriage of trust
They are only very few who have a clue of when love accrues
A marriage of two is about love making
It is not about money raking
You should only be glad if
A marriage of two is for love that is true
It is dedicated to my best friend Brajesh and Sangeeta. I hope your love be go so long that I can't imagine.
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Do kadam!
Zindagi bhar saath nibhane wale kam dekhe hai
Pyaar mai doobe dilo main gam dekhe hai
In galliyon mai khushnaseeb kam dekhe hai
Zindagi bhar saath nibhane wale kam dekhe hai
Sab kahte hai pyaar ko rushwa kiya hai duniya ne
Par pyaar main duniya ko rushwa karne wale kam dekhe hai
Zindagi bhar saath nibhane wale kam dekhe hai
Judaai ka dusra naam pyaar hai
Par pyaar main judaai sahne wale kam dekhe hai
Zindagi bhar saath nibhane wale kam dekhe hai
Waadey kar ke pyaar main mukarne wale dekhe hai
Waadon par khre utre jo woh log kam dekhe hai
Zindagi bhar sath nibhane wale kam dekhe hai
Do kadam saath chal kar door jane wale dekhe hai
Zindagi bhar saath nibhane wale kam dekhe hai
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Rooh Ka Rooh Se Rishta!
Haath badha ke mujhko paa lo ab teri hoon main,
Jab jab hawaon se meri saanson ko sahlatey ho tum
Mar jati tum kaise mujhe zinda paa lete ho,
Bahon mein jab bharte ho to zinda ho jati hoon
Saanse chalti hai meri phir tere haathon ke chhune se,
Par kuchh kahne se pahle hi lab ko lab see lete hai,
Khamoshi se jee lete hai kuchh lamhe teri bahon mein,
Nahi maloom kis ehsaas se chhu leti hoon tumhe,
Ek ehsaas ko bhujhane ek pyaas se chhoti hoon tumhe,
Tumhare seene par sar rakh kar sapne dekhti hoon,
Pyaar bhare khwaab ab aate hai inn ankhon mein bhi,
Jab dur jate ho mujhse itna hi kahti hoon,
Rooh ka Rooh se Rishta hai hum- tum
Tu hai anjaan iss se…….
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For my love!
Yeh jo rasta hai mera.
Tum agar na saath doge,
To ye kis tarha katega?
Meri soch ki hado tak,
Yeh guman bhi kaisey aaye?
Koi pal
Bina tumharay........
Bhala kaisey beet jaye?
Mere paas Tum nahi ho?
Mere paas kab nahi ho?
Meri har dua ka mehvar,
Bas
AARZOO TUMHARI!
Is aarzoo se agey,
Koi rasta nahi hai.
TUMHEIN kisqadar hai CHAHA......
Yeh Tumhein.........
PATA NAHI HAI!
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Zindagi hai to Khwaab Hai!
_Khwaab Hai To Manzilein Hai
____Manzilein Hai To Fasaley Hai
__________Fasaley Hai To Rastey Hai
_________Rastay Hai To Mushkilein Hai
_____________Mushkilein Hai To Hausla Hai
_________________Hausla Hai To Vishawas Hai
______________________Vishvas hai to Paisa hai
________________________Paisa hai to Shohrat hai
__________________________Shohrat hai to Izzat Hai
______________________________Izzat hai to Ladki hai
__________________________Ladki hai to Tension hai
______________________Tension hai to Concern hai
__________________Concern hai to a Khayaal hai
_________________Khayaal hai to Khwaab hai
______________Khawab hai to Growth hai
__________Growth hai to Zindagi hai
______Zindagi hai to khwaab hai
_Matlab duniya Gol Gol hai
Bas ghumnewala chahiye
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MISSING YOU LIKE CRAZY!
when I lay down to sleep,
I embrace myself,
I start to think...
Then I imagine
that you lie beside me...
hugs and kisses
all over my body.
I wish you
could really be here,
just to whisper,
"I love you," in my ear.
I would turn around and say,
"I love you, too."
But will it ever be true?
So I turn around
and I wonder some more,
still wanting your embrace,
so I close my eyes and picture your face...
I fall asleep dreaming of you.
In my dream it seems so true.
It's as if I can really feel
your kisses against my lips...
Then my eyes pop open
and you're nowhere to be seen,
And I feel so lonely
once AGAIN!!!
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Love!
I would wish to wake up everyday
to the sound of your breath
the warmth of your lips on my forehead,
the touch of your fingers on my body
and the feel of your heart beating with mine...
Knowing that I could never find that feeling
with anyone other than my love .
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My Love!
It goes down so deep
My love is like a rose
Whose beauty you want to keep.
My love is like a river
That will never end
My love is like a dove
With a beautiful message to send.
My love is like a song
That goes on and on forever
My love is like a prisoner
It's to you that I surrender.
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GARDEN OF FRIENDSHIP!
A is for always here
R is for respect
D is for durable
E is for everlasting
N is for nurturing
O is for outstanding
F is for friendship
F is for fantastic
R is for reliable
I is for independence
E is for equal, in all
N is for necessary
D is for does not supply the soul
S is for support
H is for happiness
I is for ideas
P is for privilege of knowing one another
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For my best teacher...
With a special gift for learning
And with a heart that deeply cares,
You add a lot of love
To everything you share,
And even though
You mean a lot,
You'll never know how much,
For you helped
To change the world
Through every life you touched.
You sparked the creativity
In the students whom you taught,
And helped them strive for goals
That could not be bought,
You are such a special teacher
That no words can truly tell
However much you're valued
For the work you do so well.
You are the bestest Teacher in this world. Wherever I may go in my life, I will always remember that I had an excellent guide in the form of a teacher, You. I found guidance, friendship, discipline and love, everything, in one person. And that person is you (Mr. Gyotindra Narayan Jha , Bhagalpur,Bihar) Without you, we would have been lost. Thank you teacher for guiding us, inspiring us and making us what we are today.
We will always be thankful to you for all the hard work and efforts you have put in, for educating us. You are not only our teacher. Rather, you are friend, philosopher and guide, all molded into one person. We will always be grateful to you for your support. I may not say it always. But, I mean it whenever I say it. Thank You Teacher for all the things you have done for us.
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Tuesday, 4 September 2007
For someone special...
His approach towards life left an indelible impression and was a decisive factor in shaping my future. He had fulled my passion by giving me space and helping me develop aesthetic sensibilites that were my very own.
He taught me that I see learning as a process that takes place overtime. As regards me, I found that I could ignore, forgive and even gained control over my anger also.
And for all this, I am grateful to him.
Thanx!
your's ever
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Monday, 3 September 2007
Mother!
A mother's sigh, a Mother's prayer
A Mother's work, and Mother's day,
Leaves little time for any play.A godly Mother with godly love,
Is treasure from God above,
A godly Mother with godly above,
A godly Mother with godly care,
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Hundreds of dewdrops to greet the dawn,
Hundreds of bees in the purple clover,
Hundreds of butterflies on the lawn,
But only one mother the wide world over
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Has God's help when she sighs a prayer.It is dedicated to all mother over the globe including my Shanti Shri Mandal.Katihar,India. For more info: www.shashionline.in
Men Vs Women...
2. Although they are so busy, they still have time for women.
3. Although they have time for women, they don't really care for them.
4. Although they don't really care for them, they always have one Around.
5. Although they always have one around them, they always try their Luck with others.
6. Although they try their luck with others, they get really pissed off If the women leaves them.
7. Although the women leaves them they still don't learn from their mistakes and still try their luck with others.
Women: 1. The most important thing for a woman is financial security.
2. Although this is so important, they still go out and buy expensive Clothes.
3. Although they always buy expensive clothes, they never have something To wear.
4. Although they never have something to wear, they always dress Beautifully.
5. Although they always dress beautifully, their clothes are always just 'An old rag'.
6. Although their clothes are always 'just an old rag', they still Expect you to compliment them.
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Husband to Wife...
I wrote your name in air, it was blown away.
Then I wrote your name on my heart & I got Heart Attack.
******God saw me hungry, he created pizza. He saw me thirsty, he created Pepsi.He saw me in dark, he created light.
He saw me without problems, he created YOU.
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Twinkle Twinkle little star
You should know what you are
And once you know what you are
Mental hospital is not so far.
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The rain makes all things beautiful.
The grass and flowers too.
If rain makes all things beautiful
Why doesn't it rain on you?
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Roses are red, Violets are blue
Monkeys like u should be kept in zoo.
Don't feel so angry you will find me there too
Not in cage but laughing at you.
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Girls : : A complex...
The best ones are at the top of the tree.
The boys dont want to reach for the good ones
because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt.
Instead, they just get the rotten apples from the ground
that aren't as good, but easy.
So the apples at the top think -something is wrong with them,
when in reality, they're amazing.
They just have to wait for the right boy to come along,
the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree.
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I wish........
I wish that I could flee
I wish that I could just let go and leave this place to be
I wish that I could stop writting all I feel inside
I wish that people everywhere would know me nation-wide
I wish at least one dream came true
I wish that you weren't gone
I wish that things could just be fine, like in a simple song
But it's not like that, It can't be that
I'll never be with you
Everything that people say...
None of it is true
People have lied to me so much
And this I cannot stand
But I can't say that. Oh, no way
No one would understand
If I dare say something that I feel
No one would care
They'd gossip and lie, and I don't know why,
but everyone else would just stare
Actually, no, that would not happen
Nobody would stare
They'd walk on by and on and on
as if I was not there
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It about you!
how much i love you today,
Every time i look at you,
all that i can see is
the love you have for me;
There are so many things,
so many challenges, adventures
and love that we share together,
We were meant to be together,
I can feel it in my heart,
Our lives are entwined together,
forever bound in the spell of love;
True, we may at times argue, fight;
But these shall never bring us apart,
for we were destined to be together,
Nothing will ever overcome our love,
Together we will soar like eagles,
On wings that never tire;
Forever one dream,one love.....
One destiny.
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My Lady Love!
That I did not think was possible
...LOVE.
Before you came into my life
I had no compassion for anything,
But now you are the light of my world,
You brighten up everyday for me.
I see the things I lacked before,
The will to go on,
A person worth fighting for,
The one I care for more than anything in my life
..You!
With all of my dreams in one hand,
And the love I have for you in the other,
You will always overcome.
With this I leave you with my everlasting love.
I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU
...ALWAYS!
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Will you be my valentine!
The thoughts, the dreams, the voice you hear,
My love and all the smiles I wear,
All things in me are thine,
The way the things in you I mock,
The way I address you and talk,
The way I stand, the way I walk,
The way my eyes do shine,
They carry a request by me,
Only for you to hear and see,
To understand and then to be,
Request you to be mine,
In them, a question they conceal,
To make you think, understand, feel,
Then answer with fervor and zeal,
“Will you be my valentine?”
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My Father, My Hero!
During my turbulent teen years I always tested my dad because, you see, we were so alike. My mother played referee between us, but it never seemed to make a difference.
My father also realized that we needed time together to sort things out. I finally realized that my dad was an amazing man and he was a really great guy to be around! We came home after the weekend with a new appreciation for each other (no small task).
It wasn't until that I confirmed in my heart what my head already knew.
The relief and love I felt was overwhelming. I knew right then what should have been obvious all my life: that you can always go home, and your parent's love for you is unconditional.
I don't know how I can ever repay my parents. It can't happen. I have confidence I can do this now since I've learned by their example.
It is dedicated to all the father all over the world including my Mr. D.L.Mandal,Katihar,India.
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SISTER!
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Sister
Do I dare to compare your love
To the lighthouse engulfed in fog
Shining it’s beacon of light
That guides through stormy seas Sister
Do I dare to compare your love
To the soft whispers carried on a breeze
As it rustles through copper colored leaves
Words of encouragement
Sister
Do I dare to compare your love
To the snow capped mountains
Majestic peaks against a soft hue of blue
The epitome of strength
Sister
Do I dare to compare your love
To the vast meadows of wildflowers
A motley of colors put on display
Simplifying beauty
Sister
Do I dare to compare your love
To the endless skies overhead
And it’s never-ending exhibit of light and dark
Infinite
Sister
Do I dare to compare your love
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Someone who will understand
Who knows the way I feel
In every situation
Her concern is very real…
Someone who has touched my heart
Who knows my every need
Times when she would see me cry
Her heart would nearly bleed…
Everyone should have a sister
Just the way I do
Even though your far away
Richly blessed is what I am
To have a sister like you…
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Hard to tell you!
It is hard for me to tell you
how much i love you today,
Every time i look at you,
all that i can see is
the love you have for me;
There are so many things,
so many challenges, adventures
and love that we share together,
We were meant to be together,
I can feel it in my heart,
Our lives are entwined together,
forever bound in the spell of love;
True, we may at times argue, fight;
But these shall never bring us apart,
for we were destined to be together,
Nothing will ever overcome our love,
Together we will soar like eagles,
On wings that never tire;
Forever one dream,one love.....
One destiny.
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MY LOVE!
I LOVE YOU even I don't know your name
It has been more than three months or more but still
I don't know your name
Your beauty and the deep love that I have
Make me to be afraid of you, , , to speak to you
even ask you your name.....
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BIRTHDAY!
That I really want to say
I’m very glad I know you;
I think of you each day.I hope you enjoy your birthday,
All the pleasures it has in store,
And because I appreciate you,
I hope you have many more!
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DOSTI!
Khushi bhi doston se hai
Gam bhi doston se hai
Takraar bhi doston se hai
Pyaar bhi doston se hai
Roothna bhi doston se hai
Manana bhi doston se hai
Baat bhi doston se hai
Misaal bhi doston se hai
Nasha bhi doston se hai
Shaam bhi doston se hai
Zindagi ki shuruvaat bhi doston se hai
Zindagi main mulakaat bhi doston se hai
Mohabbat bhi doston se hai
Inaayat bhi doston se hai
Kaam bhi doston se hai
Naam bhi doston se hai
Khyal bhi doston se hai
Armaan bhi doston se hai
Khwab bhi doston se hai
Maahol bhi doston se hai
Yaadein bhi doston se hai
Mulakaatein bhi doston se hai
Sapne bhi doston se hain
Apne bhi doston se hai
Ya yun kahun yaro
Apni to duniya hi doston se hai.....
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DIFFERENCE BETWEEN "SOMEBODY YOU LOVE " & SOMEBODY YOU LIKE"
But in front of the person you like, you get happy.
In front of the person you love, winter seems like spring.
But in front of the person you like, winter is just beautiful winter.
if you look into the eyes of the one you love, you blush.
But if you look into the eyes of the one you like, you smile.
In front of the person you love, you can't say everything on your mind.
But in front of the person you like, you can.
In front of the person you love, you tend to get shy.
But in front of the person you like, you can show your own self.
you can't look straight into the eyes of the one you love.
But you can always smile into the eyes of the one you like.
When the one you love is crying, you cry with them.
But when the one you like is crying, you end up comforting.
The feeling of love starts from the eye.
But the feeling of liking starts from the heart.
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Zindagi hai chhoti!
Zindagi hai choti , har pal mein khush raho.
Office me khush reho, ghar mein khush raho..
Aaj paneer nahi, dal mein hi khush raho..
Aaj gym jane ka samay nahi, do kadam chalk e he khush raho..
Aaj Dosto ka sath nahi, TV dekh ke hi khush raho..
Ghar ja nahi sakte to phone kar ke hi khush raho.
Aaj koi naraaz hai, uske iss andaz mein bhi khush raho..
Jisse dekh nahi sakte uski awaz mein hi khush raho.
Jisse paa nahi sakte uski yaad mein he khush raho
MBA karne ka socha tha, S/W mein he khush raho..
Laptop na mila to kya, Desktop mein hi khush raho..
Bita hua kal ja chukka hai, usse meeti yaadein hai,unme he khush raho..
Aane wale pal ka pata nahi..sapno mein he khush raho..
Haste haste ye pal bitaenge, aaj mein he khush raho
Zindagi hai choti , har pal mein khush raho..
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, phir bhi khush raho
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Parrot in Jail!
*Ek baar ek Totaa (Bole to Parrot ) Ud Raha tha full speed par ....
Uske Saamne full speed me ek Ferrari aa rahi thi ...
Dono ki takkar hui ...
Totaa Behosh ...
Raste me Ek bhikhari tha
Usne Tote ko uthaya aur Ghar le gaya ...
Usko Marham lagaya ..
Aur Pinjare me rakh diya ...
Jab Tote ko hosh aaya ...
Usne apne aap ko Pinjare me dekha ...
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Bola ...
"AAILA ... JAIL .... woh Ferrari ka Driver mar gaya kya ??"
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Causes of Poverty in India!
Have a look at this
Salary & Govt. Concessions for a Member of Parliament (MP)
Monthly Salary : 12,000
Expense for Constitution per month : 10,000
Office expenditure per month : 14,000
Traveling concession (Rs. 8 per km) : 48,000 ( eg.For a visit from kerala to Delhi & return: 6000 km)
Daily DA TA during parliament meets : 500/day
Charge for 1 class (A/C) in train : Free (For any number of times)
(All over India )
Charge for Business Class in flights : Free for 40 trips / year (With wife or P.A.)
Rent for MP hostel at Delhi : Free
Electricity costs at home : Free up to 50,000 units
Local phone call charge : Free up to 1 ,70,000 calls.
TOTAL expense for a MP [having no qualification] per year : 32,00,000 [i.e . 2.66 lakh/month]
TOTAL expense for 5 years : 1,60,00,000
For 534 MPs, the expense for 5 years :
8,54,40,00,000 (nearly 855 crores)
This is how all our tax money is been swallowed and price hike on our regular commodities.......
And this is the present condition of our country:
855 crores could make their life livable !!
Think of the great democracy we have.............
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Generation Next Motto!
* U marry someone else. *
* The one u marry becomes ur wife or husband. *
* And the one u loved becomes the password of Ur mail id" *
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* There's only one perfect child in the world & every mother has it. *
* There's only one perfect wife in the world & every neighbour has it. *
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* If someone says u r ugly, its ok, if someone says u r stupid, its ok, *
* If someone says u r genius slap him as tight as you can n say there *
* is a limit of kidding n u r now crossing the limit. *
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* Three dreams of a man: *
* To be as handsome as his mother thinks. *
* To be as rich as his child believes. *
* To have as many women as his wife suspects... *
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* Husband & wife are like liver and kidney. Husband is liver & wife kidney.
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* If liver fails, kidney fails. If kidney fails, liver manages with other
kidney. *
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* What's the diff between Dava &d Daru? *
* Dava is like girlfriend, that comes with expiry date and *
* Daru is like wife, Jitni purani hogi utna sir chad ke bolegi. *
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* Wife ko Begum kyon kehte hain? *
* Kyonki shaadi ke baad saare gum to husband ke hisse mein aate hain or *
* wife Be-Gum ho jaat hai. *
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* The Japanese have produced a camera that has such a fast shutter *
* speed it can take a picture of a woman with her mouth shut *
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INTERESTING DEFINITIONS!
INTERESTING DEFINITIONS... School: |
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AN INTRESTING FACT!
If
A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z
is equal to
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26
Then,
Hard Work
H+A+R+D+W+O+R+K
8+1+18+4+23+15+18+11 = 98%
Knowledge
K+N+O+W+L+E+D+G+E
11+14+15+23+12+5+4+7+5 = 96%
Love
L+O+V+E
12+15+22+5 = 54%
Luck
L+U+C+K
12+21+3+11 = 47%
most of us think this is the most important ??? )
Then what makes 100% ?
Is it Money ? .. NO ! ! !
M+O+N+E+Y
13+15+14+5+25 = 72%
Leadership ? .... NO ! ! !
L+E+A+D+E+R+S+H+I+P
12+5+1+4+5+18+19+9+16 = 89%
Every problem has a solution, only if we perhaps change our attitude.
To go to the top,
to that 100% ,
what we really need to go further... a bit more...
ATTITUDE
A+T+T+I+T+U+D+E
1+20+20+9+20+21+4+5 = 100%
It is OUR ATTITUDE towards Life and Work that makes OUR Life 100% ! ! !
ATTITUDE IS EVERYTHING
Change Your Attitude
And You Change Your Life
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10 Principles!
Stop and ask yourself today, "How do I really feel about myself?" Before you answer read these ten principles.
Better yet, keep them before you daily.
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(1) Never think or speak negatively about yourself; that puts you in disagreement with God.
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(2) Meditate on your God-given strengths and learn to encourage yourself, for much of the time nobody else will.
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(3) Don't compare yourself to anybody else. You're unique, one of a kind, an original. So don't settle for being a copy.
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(4) Focus on your potential, not your limitations. Remember, God lives in you!
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(5) Find what you like to do, do well, and strive to do it with excellence.
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(6) Have the courage to be different. Be a God pleaser, not a people pleaser.
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(7) Learn to handle criticism. Let it develop you instead of discourage you.
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(8) Determine your own worth instead of letting others do it for you. They'll short-change you!
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(9) Keep your shortcomings in perspective - you're still a work in progress.
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(10) Focus daily on your greatest source of confidence - the God Who lives in you !
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The Power of Positive Thinking!
Rules are what we use to define life. People do not realize this, but we need rules in order to appreciate life more. Rules take the chaos that is called life and impose order into it. Some people think rules limit our achievements, but this is not true. When you think about it, you will realize the fact that rules protect our progress as humanity. Without rules, we would have been extinct long ago.
Rules help us define life. Sometimes, we look for rules in order to help us achieve our goals. People create rules in order to help themselves achieve their goals in a manner that they can understand. Rules are also used to help us comprehend life. People give out rules in order to help others get what they have achieved. It is because of rules that we are able to hold on to every discovery made.
It comes as no surprise that people look for 10 rules for the power of positive thinking. It seems that people, when looking for rules, like to stick no 10, which is a nice, round number.
The power of positive thinking and 10 rules in getting it is one of the most popular subjects out there. This is because they have begun to realize that positive thinking does affect life significantly. Whether you see a glass as half-empty or half-full can affect the way you treat your business. We are in control of our lives and our decisions matter.
What are the 10 rules of the power of positive thinking?
Believe - You cannot pretend to be a positive thinker. You need to believe. In positive thinking, you cannot pretend because there's no one to pretend to. If somebody believes that you are a positive thinker, how can that benefit you? The most important of the 10 rules of the power of positive thinking is that you should believe it.
Be objective - This is very important in the 10 rules for the power of positive thinking. Many people tend to see their lives for their failures and thus, they lose hope of ever succeeding in their goal. Other people tend to magnify their success and, filled with false pride, they make all the wrong decisions.
Take care of your health - One step to achieving the power of positive thinking is taking care of your body. All of the positive thinking in the world can't help you if you are dead, can it? You need to have a healthy body in order to fuel your positive thinking.
Surround yourself with positive people - When you are engaged in an internal struggle between your positive self and your negative self, you will need all the support you can get. You do not really want to surround yourself with people who will just kick your positive attitude to the ground with their negativity.
Be patient - Positive thinking does not come overnight. You need to train yourself in order to get rid of any negative attitude you possess.
Turn negativity around - When something negative enters your personality get rid of it not by repelling it outright, but by channeling that energy into positive thoughts.
Remember that others can sense your negativity - One reason why people fail is because other people can sense their negativity and want no part of it. Before you try to do something, be sure to have the right attitude.
Find something positive in everything new - When you encounter something unfamiliar, never do what most people do and fear it. Take a hard look at it and see it for the positive effects it brings, this will help you understand things better.
Pace yourself - Remember that you cannot hurry into getting positive. You need to pace yourself in order to prevent yourself from breaking down. Go slowly and take life one day at a time.
Make the change – The main characteristic of these ten rules of the power of positive thinking is the fact that they only show you the door. You need to open it yourself.
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One Song...
One song can spark a moment ?
One flower can wake the dream ?
One tree can start a forest ?
One bird can herald spring ?
One smile begins a friendship ?
One handclasp lifts a soul ?
One star can guide a ship at sea ?
One word can frame the goal ?
One vote can change a nation ?
One sunbeam lights a room ?
One candle wipes out darkness ?
One laugh will conquer gloom ?
One step must start each journey ?
One word must start each prayer ?
One hope will raise our spirits ?
One touch can show you care ?
One voice can speak with wisdom ?
One heart can know what“s true ?
One life can make the difference ?
You see, IT“S UP TO YOU! ?
one scrap can bring smiles on ur buddy face... !!!!
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A SIMPLE HUG!
There's something in a simple hug
That always warms the heart;
It welcomes us back home
And makes it easier to part.
A hug is a way to share the joy
And sad times we go through,
Or just a way for friends to say
They like you 'cause you're you.
Hugs are meant for anyone
For whom we really care,
From your grandma to your neighbour,
Or a cuddly teddy bear.
A hug is an amazing thing --
It's just the perfect way
To show the love we're feeling
But can't find the words to say.
It's funny how a little hug
Makes everyone feel good;
In every place and language,
It's always understood.
And hugs don't need new equipment,
Special batteries or parts -
Just open up your arms
And open up your hearts.
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THE NATURE OF A FRIEND!
Be there for you
Cheer you up,
When you're blue
Listen to all your woes
Help you out with your foes
Encourage you to succeed
Know when you are in need
Remember you on special days
Help you out in so many ways
Tell you how things really are
Remember you from afar
Give you what support they can
Be your true and logal fan
Love you in good times or bad
Build you up when you're sad
Help you when you've done it wrong
Remind you that you do belong
Give you a pat on the back
Tell you when you've got the knack
Hug you just to console
Remind you that you have a goal
Celebrate your victories
Pick you up from your knees
Hurt with you when you're down
And Try to wipe away your frownThis nature I have found in my best friend Asim,Rohit,Brajesh...
Thank You for being the BEST OF BEST.
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RISK!
To laugh is to risk appearing a fool
To weep is to risk appearing sentimental
To reach out for another is to risk involvement
To expose your feelings is to risk
exposing your true self
To place your ideal, your dreams before a crowd
is to risk their loss
To love is to risk not being loved in return
To live is to risk dying
To hope is to risk despair
To try is to risk failure
Yet risks must be taken
Because the greatest hazard in life is risking
NOTHING
The person who risks nothing
Does nothing
Has nothing
Is nothing
Self-realisation is harder than
Self Sacrifice
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DONT BE TENSIONED!
The moment you are in tension
You will lose your attention
Then you are in total confusion
And you will feel irritation
This may spoil your personal relation
Ultimately you won't get co-operation
And get things into compilation
Then your BP raise caution
And you may have to take medication
Why not try understanding the situation
And try to think about the solution
Many problems will be solved by discussion
Which will work out better in your profession
Don't think its my free suggestion
It is only for your prevention
If you understand my tension
You will never come again into tension!!!!
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CHOICES!
I welcome this new day.
It is mine to shape and to mold.
This is a new day, mine to use,
to fill, to live as I see fit.
How it unfolds is up to me.
The choice is mine.
I can be miserable,
or I can have a great day.
I can doubt, or I can have faith.
I can feel depressed,
or I can express the joy
that is inherent within me.
I can wallow in self-pity,
or I can help someone in need.
I can accept defeat,
or I can strive to succeed.
I can fear, or I can trust.....
myself, others, God.
I can complain about
aches and pains,
or I can affirm God's
perfect life within me.
I can dwell on loss,
or I can seek new interests,
new joy in living.
I can criticize others,
or I can accept and bless
them, and enjoy happy and
harmonious relationships.
I can harbor old grudges,
or I can forgive.
I can speak of lack, or I can
affirm God's never-failing supply.
I can give up, or I
can make a fresh start.
I can go it alone,
or I can depend on God.
My happiness, or lack thereof,
depends upon my attitude.
The choice is mine
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